is time illusory, how old is creation, and other thoughts

On a recent radio program, we heard that many individuals who experience near death experiences (NDEs), say or claim that they were in a timeless state. Some of these people think that time is illusory.  Such an assertion is not really opposed to the idea that time is a dimension of the material universe and does not truly exist (as we know or understand it) on the spiritual plane of existence.  From a Vedic perspective, we might say that the material universe is not ultimately real because it is temporary and constantly changing.  The spiritual plane or universe is real because it is eternal.  (The material is temporary and illusory.  The spiritual is eternal and real.)


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anthropomorphic God or theomorphic humans

We are taught in Christianity that we human beings are created in the image and likeness of God.  However, there are some who will assert that we humans impute our own characteristics on to our image or concept of God.

Thus, one could frame this question: Do humans make God into their image, or are humans created in God’s image (both physically and in our spiritual nature)?

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spicing up married lovemaking: oral sex

Sexual intimacy is a key ingredient in a successful, lasting and happy marriage.  Thus, it is important for married persons to nurture their shared sexual love for each other and work to make their sexual intimacy mutually fulfilling and satisfying.  A little variety or spice in your sex life can be a very positive thing.  Make love in different sexual positions and do not limit yourselves to your marriage bed.  Make love in other parts of the house.  Add new acts and be a little adventurous.

That is when oral sex can be beneficial.

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a paradox of knowledge and awareness

The more you know, the more you realize there is even more you do not know.  This is the substance of what a lecturer told us one morning in a large lecture hall at university.  (8:00 a.m. classes were rough for some of us night owls.)

Specifically, he said that when you receive your bachelor’s degree, you know some things and you realize that there is much you do not know.  Later, if you continue your education and earn a master’s degree, you know even more than you knew with just your bachelor’s degree but you are also aware that there is an even larger amount of knowledge that you do not know.  This process continues for those who labor for and achieve their doctorates (PhD). Yes, one at the doctoral level knows much by human standards, but he/she is even more acutely aware of an ever larger body of knowledge that is still beyond their reach (or perhaps, grasp).  With greater knowledge comes a larger awareness of how finite our knowledge is.


China girl painting


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circumcision: dialog with a pediatric nurse

There are many myths surrounding routine infant male circumcision in the United States.

What is rarely thought about by parents when they consider letting the doctors and/or interns circumcise their son(s) is the child’s right to bodily integrity.  And, too many Americans (including US pediatricians) are woefully ignorant as to the function of the foreskin.

We thought we would share this recent exchange between us and a circumcisionist over on YouTube (the link to the video with comments is below).


circumcision in the US


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sexual love within marriage: its giving nature

The sexual love the spouses share with each other is naturally giving.  Sadly, among married Christians there is much confusion on this subject of sexual love, with some spouses needlessly suffering from unhealthy inhibitions and even feeling shame in the marriage bed.  This is so unnecessary.  Letting go of, or shedding these inhibitions and shame will open you to a deeper, richer emotional intimacy with your spouse during your lovemaking.

Mutually fulfilling lovemaking is not the only necessary ingredient for a successful, lasting, happy marriage – but the reality is that it is one of the key ingredients!  And, God intended that both spouses enjoy sexual fulfillment within their loving marriage.  (If you doubt this, consider the sexual capacity (for arousal, desire and pleasure) in both the man and the woman all throughout each month.  Of course, the emotions are also intimately involved.)

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just because we can do something, does not mean that we ought to do it

Why do we humans do the things we do?

Why are we always tinkering?

Why do we show no self-restraint?

Why do we play act at being God?

We may not have very good answers, but it is important to raise the questions in these days.

The small placard on the wooden man says “tinkering”.  (All photos in this essay were taken at the Exploratorium in San Francisco this past Saturday, 20 September 2014.)




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the lot of man

Man must confront death.

Man must endure suffering.

Man must resist temptation.

Man must accept everything on faith as regards the next life.

Man must accept (and endure) uncertainty (and risk) during this life.

Man must toil to keep body and soul together.


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USA 2015: social unrest and destructive violence

Baltimore burning and violence and vandalism occurred in many cities across the nation as we left April and entered May this year.

While in the Bay Area this past weekend, I saw on the local TV news that young people smashed the glass doors of businesses and smashed windshields at a new car dealership in Oakland on Friday night.  (One car was set on fire.) It appears that while the police were busy at a protest over the death of Freddie Gray, elsewhere in the city young people went on a rampage.  The few arrested were young white males that may not even live in Oakland.

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The Hero is in the Eye of the Beholder


As I am currently getting my butt kicked every day, I am not able to blog constructively at this time. So, for my blog’s subscribers, we reblog this post by another blogger. Worth a read.

Originally posted on Holding together the jello:

I don’t wear a cape. Or fly. Or even have x-ray vision (although that would be a nice super power to have). In fact, about the closest I feel to accomplishing anything even remotely heroic is fixing my son’s lunch in time to take him to school. superhero sound effects

But I recently found out that even if I don’t see myself in the role of a hero, sometimes our kids see us with a much different perspective.

I had the chance to travel to Houston recently as part of my job. And I was fortunate enough to be able to take my son with me.

Now Houston may not seem like the ideal destination. But I’ve been there a few times. It’s one of my favorite cities to visit.

And for my son . . . well, he’s never been to a city that big before. He had trouble sleeping the night before…

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