a thought provoking post on marital lovemaking

Here is a post we came across today that we think may interest some readers.

The important role lovemaking plays within marriage is discussed.  Though the target audience is married Catholics, others (Christian and non-Christian) may gain from the insights offered.  The author’s views may be considered “controversial” by some readers.

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Sex is the nourishing food of marriage

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on sex, purity and avoiding harmful extremes

Being “pure” does not require the complete desexualization of the individual.

It is sad that Christianity became warped by the influence of ancient pagan schools of thought that had a contempt for the flesh and anything related to the flesh.  If one reads the New Testament, one does not find an animosity towards the married state nor towards sex within marriage.  This animosity came later and is not authentically Christian.


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Delight your marriage: a review for why husbands need frequent sex

At the cordial request of another blogger, Belah Rose, we are presenting our review of the recent podcast:

DYM Ep34: Why He Wants It All The Time (And What He Should Do To Get It)

found at this link:


Belah, a wife and mother, is an insightful Christian marriage author, blogger, and speaker.  We encourage interested readers to listen to her podcast, and visit her website.

Our feature photo is “A Heart in the Open” and was taken by my wife, Lucy, in San Francisco two years ago.


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spicing up married lovemaking: oral sex

Sexual intimacy is a key ingredient in a successful, lasting and happy marriage. Thus, it is important for married persons to nurture their shared sexual love for each other and work to make their sexual intimacy mutually fulfilling and satisfying.  A little variety or spice in your sex life can be a very positive thing. Make love in different sexual positions and do not limit yourselves to your marriage bed.  Make love in other parts of the house.  Add new acts and be a little adventurous.

That is when oral sex can be beneficial.

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